The term "Shadow" was first used by Carl G. Jung to describe the repressed or denied part of the Self. Robert Bly popularized this idea in A Little Book On The Human Shadow. Bly says that we were each born into a "360 degree personality." As infants we expressed the full circle of our human nature, without editing or censoring. As we grew up, however, we learned that certain slices of our 360 degree pie were unacceptable to the people around us. According to Bly, it was as if we threw them over our shoulder into a bag, which we've been dragging around behind us ever since.

Most of us have issues in the bag that slow us down in some area of our life. Some of us can barely move because we have so much in the bag. We define Shadow as everything we have stuffed into the bag. It may be "positive" parts or "hurtful" parts. The Shadow is all those parts of ourselves we have split off, repressed, hidden away or denied.

You can spend so much of your time just keeping things in the bag, you don't have enough energy to live the way you want. It is believed that every Shadow contains a kernel of inner strength (Gold) which can be used to power our lives. Your Shadows are like a Gold Mine of creative useful energy. We can uncover this Gold and harness its potential.

Learn How To:

• Understand why you behave in a certain way
• Get help or support for unfolding more of yourself
• Work with feelings like fear, anger, guilt, shame, depression, grief and joy
• Break through old patterns of behavior
• Reframe Shadows into allies
• Move through your blocks
• Create opportunity and joy from frustration and stagnation

Skills Taught:

• 7 easy steps!
• Identify and know your Shadow
• Embrace, Integrate and Transform it
• Use the hidden power of your Shadow
• Become fully conscious
• Self Knowledge and Self-Actualization
• Improve Self Esteem and Self Worth
• Shadow - Projection Techniques
• Shadow - Ownership Techniques
• Shadow - Transformation Techniques

This INWARD BOUND journey brings up our emotional world, especially those parts (emotions) that are in SHADOW, teaches some healing methods to deal with and process our emotions and provides a space where every participant can do a SHADOW HEALING PROCESS! Some of the benefits & reasons for taking this workshop will include: to understand why you behave in a certain way, to get help or support for unfolding more of yourself, to work with feelings like fear, anger, guilt, shame, depression, grief and joy to break through old patterns of behavior, to reframe your shadows into your allies, to move thru your blocks & create opportunity & joy from stagnation & frustration, to LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE - FULLY!
F.A.Q.

Effective communication is a vital part of conflict resolution and healthy relationships. The way we talk to people sets up the "tone, vibration, frequency + impact" of the relationship. "Clean + Clear Speaking" helps people know who we really are and what we really want. Communication is a lot more that just talking. It includes listening, the phone, the internet, the written word and body language.
There is a P.A.T.H. we can follow...

Learn how to talk to people in a way that does not:

• Trigger them
• Push their buttons
• Blame them
• Shame them
• Hurt them
• Make them change
• Escalate the situation
• Diminish your own feelings, wants + needs

Learn how to talk to people in a way that does let you:

• Share your pain and feelings
• Get your wants and needs
• Own your stuff, wounds + behavior
• Take responsibility
• Hold them accountable
• Help them see their responsibility
• Build intimate relationships
• Communicate cleanly and effectively

"Mastering the Circuitry of our emotions can really empower and fuel up our lives...".

Learn How To:

• Master your emotional world & move through emotional blocks
• Escape your childhood traumas and their programming of your life
• Turn things around in your life - quickly and in the moment
• Take off your armor and live more honestly, authentically and passionately
• Use your emotions as allies in getting you what you want and creating the life you want to live
• Move from Emotional Literacy to Emotional Intelligence and into Emotional Mastery!

Skills Taught:

• Effective Strategies to Work With Fear, Anger, Guilt, Shame, Depression, Grief & Joy
• Ways to Recognize each major Emotional State Quickly & in the Moment
• How to Recognize & Embrace the Positive Intention of the 7 major emotions
• Ways to Create Safe and Emotionally Fulfilling Relationships In Your Life!

EMOTIONAL CIRCUITRY GUIDE Comes With!

This is a Mastery course in Emotional Mastery that will enable you to Lead Workshops of your own! It provides all the tools you need to confidently Bring this Work out into the World.

Learn How To:

• Set, Hold & Flow wih the Container
• Build a Personal Container
• Deal with Emotions within the Group
• Understand Group Dynamics
• Use Different Leadership Styles
• Teach Emotional Mastery
• Run & Operate Your Own Emotional Mastery Workshops

Receive On-Going Mentoring Around:

• Economics of the Workshop Business
• Advertising & Marketing
• Building a Self-Perpetuating Network

LEADER'S MANUAL Comes With!
A telephone interview is required!

“Mastering the Circuitry of our emotions can really empower and fuel-up our students' lives…”

As human beings we experience students and the world through the physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional. We can't help but be emotional beings with emotional experiences.

Learning to master the circuitry and lessons of our emotional worlds can help us create more fulfilling relationships for ourselves and our students. It can allow us to teach students to more fully express and experience themselves. Each of the emotions, when fully and consciously expressed, can really empower and fuel up our Student's lives!

Learn How To:

• Master the emotional world and move through emotional blocks
• Turn things around in your Student's life, quickly and in the moment
• Take off your armor and live more honestly, authentically, and passionately with your students
• Use your emotions as allies to get what you want
• Create a fulfilling life
• Model Emotional Mastery and pass this on in the classroom
• Help your students move from Emotional Literacy to Emotional Intelligence and into Emotional Mastery
• Move through your blocks
• 7 Steps to the "Classroom of your Dreams!"

Skills Taught:

• Proactive Teaching Techniques to know what the student is thinking and feeling
• Positive Learning Methods to deal with "Challenging Behavior" in the classroom
• Know what to say and do to help students learn something important from their emotions
• Know what to say and do to help students move through their emotional blocks
• Effective strategies to work with Fear, Anger,Guilt, Shame, Depression, Grief + Joy
• Ways to recognize each major emotional state quickly & in the moment
• How to recognize and embrace the positive intention of the 7 major emotions

EMOTIONAL CIRCUITRY GUIDE Comes With!

"When my relationships are working well, my life is working well..."

Learn How To:

• Heal damaged relationships
• Get closer to your family and friends
• Be more productive and happier at work, at home and at school
• Feel more alive and empowered
• Improve self-esteem and self-confidence
• Deal with your negative judgments and inner critic
• Heal the wounds of the past
• Get more of what you want out of your relationships and your life!

Skills Taught:

• New Conflict Resolution Strategies
• Ways to recognize and deal with Wounds & Projections that lead to conflict
• Clean & non-shaming Communication Strategies
• Accountability-Integrity-Responsibility Techniques
• Ways to Heal Relationships and Create a More Fulfilling Life!

CONFLICT RESOLUTION GUIDE Comes With!

This is a Mastery course in Conflict Resolution that will enable you to Lead Workshops of your own! It provides all the tools you need to confidently Bring this Work out into the World.

Learn How To:

• Set, Hold & Flow with the Container
• Build a Personal Container
• Deal with Conflict in the Group
• Understand Group Dynamics
• Use Different Leadership Styles
• Teach Conflict Resolution
• Run & Operate Your Own Conflict Resolutions Workshops

Receive On-Going Mentoring Around:

• Economics of the Workshop Business
• Advertising & Marketing
• Building a Self-Perpetuating Network

LEADER'S MANUAL Comes With!
A telephone interview is required.

“Mastering the Circuitry of emotions can really empower and fuel-up our Clients' lives… ”

As human beings we experience ourselves and the world in physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional ways. We can’t help but be emotional beings with emotional experiences.

Learning to master the circuitry of our emotional worlds can help us create more fulfilling relationships for ourselves and our clients . It can also allow us to coach clients to more fully express and experience themselves. Each of the emotions, when fully and consciously expressed, can really empower and fuel-up their lives!

Learn How To:

• Be an Effective Coach
• Turn things around in your Coachees life quickly and in the moment
• Set up your Coaching Practice
• Work in Non-Shaming + Safe Ways
• Help your Clients move from Emotional Literacy and Intelligence into Emotional Mastery
• Help your Clients find and maximixe their Inner Resources
• 7 Steps to the “Coaching Session of your Dreams!”

Skills Taught:

• Proactive Teaching Techniques to know what the client is thinking and feeling
• Know what to say and do to help them learn something important from their emotions
• Know what to say and do to help them move through their emotional blocks
• Effective strategies to work with Fear, Anger,Guilt, Shame, Depression, Grief + Joy
• Ways to recognize each major emotional state quickly & in the moment
• How to recognize and embrace the positive intention of the 7 major emotions

EMOTIONAL CIRCUITRY GUIDE Comes With!

 

 

Learn How To:

• Be An Effective Coach
• Set Up Your Coaching Practice
• Work In Non-Shaming & Safe Ways
• Help Your Clients Find & Maximize Their Inner Resources
• Help Your Clients Transform Their Lives & Themselves

Skills Taught:

• The Shadow-Projection Approach
• Use Conflict As A Consciousness Raising & Empowerment Tool
• Recognize & Reframe The Different Subpersonalities
• Recognize & Reframe The Different Emotional States
• Teach Your Clients Exact Communication Skills

This Certification Is For:
Consultants Counsellors Coaches	Therapists Mentors Social Workers	Teachers Facilitators Workshop Leaders

 

This training is designed to challenge both the Senior Man and the Rookie. It teaches skills you can bring to both the NWTA weekend and to your I-Group.

Learn How To:

• Facilitate GUTS with confidence
• Run non-shaming and shame-free GUTS
• Quickly determine which process to run (i.e. which processes go with which issues and wounds)
• Help a man see his shadow in his process
• Utilize your creative energies in facilitating GUTS
• Guide a man to a deeper, more powerful experience and a bigger win!
• Hold your shadow in front of you
• Hear what the man is telling you and follow Him from your heart
• Use the Metaphor in the Story-Line to guide you

Skills Taught: 

Setting up and Facilitating each of the 18 main GUTS processes, from start to finish

• Learn the flow of all 44 components of GUTS
• Shame-free processes to get a man unstuck and into his feelings
• How to get the man's story & his healthy motivators
• Safety - how to set it up and maintain it
• Dealing with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
• Role Playing Techniques
• Materials & props - When To Use & What To Do
• Closing and integrating the work

This training teaches the flow, intention and practical aspects of GUTS. It will allow you to work on and facilitate live issues, and to experience your Shadow Animal in a Shadow Dance!

A GUTS GUIDE comes with this training!

This ADVANCED GUTS  training teaches you the  “tricks of the trade” and the "moves and manoveurs" that will help you become a Master GUTS Facilitator.

It also teaches you 7 NEW GUTS  Processes that are designed to create a BIG WIN for the man being processed.

These new processes will add spice & varitey to our Saturday Afternoons!

Learn How To:

• Become and expert facilitator with presence on the carpet
• Inspire full trust of the man being processed
• Create & Pick the juiciest process  that will give a Man HIS biggest Win!
• Get yourself or the participant effortlessly unstuck or back into the process
• Use the Soul Shadow Dance
• Talk to the Man in a way that builds trust,  deepens the work and makes things flow
• How to work with the 7 Emotional States (Fear,  Anger, Guilt, Shame, Depression, Grief, Joy)
• Create unique processes that helps Men really let it go

Skills Taught:

• What to do at the start to create the most powerful process for the man
• How to spot & create the metaphor that tells you what to run
• Creating and using truth responses 
• How to become expert at spotting cue words that will lead into the juiciest process for the man will lead into the juiciest process for the man
• Techniques for getting a process unstuck
• How to use the 3 levels of shadow that show up on the carpet 
• How to run 7 NEW Processes based on the 7 common emotional states, such as the Wall of  Anger and the Circle of Fear ...
• What to say and how to talk a man through his emotions 
• How to Tie the Affirmation more solidly into the closing  of the process
• Which GUTS & which SHADOW HEALING processes go with each emotional state

A GUTS GUIDE comes with this training!

This is a Mastery course in GUTS Facilitation that will take you to a Level of Mastery and enable you to lead Workshops of your own!

Learn How To:

• Set, Hold & Flow with the Container
• Build a Personal Container
• Deal with Conflict in the Group
• Understand Group Dynamics
• Use Different Leadership Styles
• Teach GUTS Facilitation Techniques
• Run & Operate Your Own GUTS Facilitator Trainings

Receive On-Going Mentoring Around:

• Economics of the Workshop Business
• Advertising & Marketing
• Building a Self-Perpetuating Network

Graduates of this training will receive ongoing mentoring and support.
They will also be "Certified" to run the GUTS Facilitator Training.

LEADER'S MANUAL Comes With!

One of the outstanding strengths of the ManKind Project is that it offers ongoing I-Groups. These groups provide a safe place for men’s continued growth and healing after their initiation weekend. The Warrior Group Facilitator Training is designed to teach and strengthen (experientially) the skills necessary for maintaining a healthy I-Group , Mission Group or Men's Group. It provides men with the tools needed to create and sustain strong, powerful, non shaming and safe containers for continued growth and healing. You will learn how to Set, Hold and Flow with the Container. You will also learn how to defend the container from certain wounds that cause "container breaches". This training will provide advanced tools and processes for and to advance your Men's Group!

80 PAGE MANUAL INCUDED!
How To Lead Groups Effectively

• 7 Steps Of Leadership
• How To Manage and Flow with Individual & Group Behavior
• What causes Groups to Break Down or to Flourish
• Strategies for Leading and Following

How to Recognize and Facilitate Emotions

• 7 Emotional States
• Circle Process Skills
• Non Shaming Facilitation Techniques
• Use Emotions as Teachers

Voice Dialogue Processing Skills

• How to Recognize and Facilitate Different Sub-Personalities
• Ways to Reframe Misguided Energies and Get What You Want

Conflict Resolution

• How to Facilitate Clearings & Accountability
• Use Conflicts to Find Your Shadow
• Resolve Conflicts - Where everyone wins
• Ways to Communicate Cleanly

Communication Skills

• Clean & Non Shaming
• Tools to Build Relationships
• Dissipate & Resolve Conflicts
• Get to the Heart of Things

Mentoring Skills

• The 4 Phases & 3 Functions of Mentoring
• How to Get the Most Out Of It
• How to Be an Effective Mentor

7 Steps to Advanced Groups that promote deep transformational work, respect, closeness, intimacy and support!

This training is the one step further you may have or have not been waiting for… But, HO! It is here! The Advanced Warrior knows who he is and who he is not. He knows who or what to fight with, fight against, fight for or fight to… He knows what he sees in the mirror and owns it. He knows what he wants and goes for it. This training is for INITIATED MEN ONLY! You have done The Weekend, completed the Integration Cycle and YOU want MORE…

TECHNIQUES & METHODS

EMOTIONAL CIRCUITRY GUIDE
From I-Statements to fully integrated and advanced Emotional Intelligence. 20 page booklet Facilitating The Emotions.

MENTORING GUIDE
An Effective Mentoring Paradigm that will dramatically enhance your relationships; as both Mentors and as Mentees. Gain insight on why and how past friendships went awry or turned sour. Learn tools to fully benefit from your present and future Mentor/Mentee relationships.

FOCUS ON 20 - MIDLIFE
After being teenagers and before midlife, we all go through "young adulthood." Before this, our parents and the system insulated us from the full consequences of our choices and behaviors. Then, as young adults, we choose our own path (vs. having it chosen for us) and become legally and financially responsible for our choices and actions. This can be both exhilerating and excruciating.
For many of us, those may have been the years when the shit really hit the fan and it felt just like clobbering time. Young adults often set out with the best of intentions, full of hopes and dreams, only to wake up near or in midlife believing that they just got all caught up in it. In a way, we could say that life just swallows us up and spits us out at midlife. This training helps heal our wounds from young adulthood.

Surprise! Surprise!

A.I.R.
Absolute Individual Responsibility
Accountability Integrity Responsibility
This easy to apply and versatile tool will help you make sense of issues and challenges as they show up. It will help you deal with things positively, especially in the moment!

PARADOX HEALING TECHNIQUE
When opposite or opposing sides of something are present, there is a way to bring resolution and receive healing. This Hi-Tech process will help you Bless yourself on your journey and help you determine what is or where lies your path!

Become that person who has the power and freedom to choose their responses to all kinds of situations. Learn to develop Absolute Subjectivity by letting go and reaching past the veil of illusion to find your Inner Witness. This Inner Witness is a key to release from the turmoil of the mundane world. It is also a key to the freedom of Conscious Living! This training deals with our sub-personalities through the combined use of Voice Dialogue and Shadow Healing. You will learn to facilitate and reframe those mis-directed energies in your Selves and in each other to achieve an Empowered and Balanced Way Of Life! You will learn to master your selves, sub-personalities and energy patterns. You will learn how to take this system back to your I-Groups and into your Lives! You will learn how this system integrates and interfaces with Shadow Healing and GUTS.
F.A.Q.

This experiential Archetypal Journey will help you clearly identify the source and the manifestations of your wounds.

And perhaps most importantly, you will get some healing around all 4 Archetypal Wounds and especially some DEEP HEALING of YOUR PRIMARY ARCHETYPAL WOUND!

You Will Learn How To:

• Distinguish (in yourself & others) between the energies of LOVER, WARRIOR, MAGICIAN & KING
• Know when these energies are deflated, inflated or balanced
• Activate any of the 4 Archetypes at will
• Realign your Archetypal Energies by "shoring up" or "siphoning off."
• Recognize how these energies show up in your circles, on weekends, at work, at home, in your relationships; IN YOUR LIFE!

Skills Taught:

• A fast, simple and easy KEY to understanding the 4 Archetypes and Yourself
• Instant manifestation skills and tools
• What the 4 Archetypal Wounds are and how to Heal them
• Tools to deal with others when they are in deflated/inflated Archetypal modes
• How to deal with:
  • The Paradox of Real vs. Ritual
  • Your Perpetrator and Your Victim
  • Idealizations & Betrayals
  • Painful Persistent Patterns
  • Self Limiting Beliefs
  • Self Defeating Behaviors

The hidden ways we compete with each other for ENERGY and attention is a source of much of the pain & conflict that we experience collectively & individually.

These learned Shadow Control Dramas can be exposed & replaced with a new paradigm that allows us to “tap into” the ENERGY we want without having to spend time and effort manipulating & controlling each other for it!

If you experience yourself in any of the following types of Control Dramas
- as either the Initiator or the Recipient -
then this highly experiential training is for you.

POOR ME
If we seek to control others by making them feel guilty for not doing enough for us (gaining energy when they buy into this "guilt trip" & begging to attend us).

ALOOF
If we seek to control others in a slightly less passive way by remaining detached, secretive & vague - hoping to entice someone to chase us around in order to probe & figure us out, and thus gaining energy from their attention.

INTERROGATOR
If we seek to control others in a more aggressive way by finding fault & making others feel self-conscious & monitored or if we seek to get others to see things our way

INTIMIDATOR
If we seek to control others in the most aggressive way, to win energy by frightening others into paying attention to us.

Each participant will have the opportunity to work through their own Control Drama and to transform their behavior and energy through a Shadow Healing Process.

Together, we will learn how to "tap into" an unlimited and vast network of Universal Energy and Information Fields.

The time to REPLACE DESTRUCTIVE CONTROL DRAMAS with ENERGETICALLY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS is at HAND!

BASED ON JAMES REDFIELD'S CELESTINE PROPHECY

• Cultural Projection
• Multi - Culturalism
• Prejudice - Racism
• Influence - Power - Privilige
• Group Dynamics - Leadership
• The Core Wound - Healing It

Come experience the Power, Healing & Freedom available thru the wisdom of your MAGICIAN!

The MAGICIAN experiences the unseen, makes it abstract and then makes it seen to others. He can become any Archetype needed in the moment and can use that energy to heal & transform.

Through him you will learn to reframe your SHADOWS into ALLIES, move through blocks, and create Opportunity & Joy from stagnation & frustration.

The MAGICIAN'S shadows of Fear & the Inner Critic can land us on the doorstep of Shame which blocks our ability to fully accept Blessing & Support. This initiation will help you let these ALL THE WAY IN!

This is both a Powerful Healing Experience and a Hands-On Facilitator Training. You will learn to call forth your MAGICIAN to facilitate and heal yourself & others using all 4 Archetypes!

You Will Learn How To:

• Move through and process Fears & Self-Criticisms
• Glean valuable information from both your Fear & your Inner Critic
• Turn your Inner Critic into your INNER TEACHER!
• Truly Bless & Support yourself and others
• Experience Healing around your Shame Wounds
• Master the Art of Detachment (as a way to have and use the Power hidden in your Shadows, Wounds & Issues)
• LIVE the LIFE You Want To Live FULLY!

Skills Taught:

• How to masterfully set up processes which help a Man clearly see and deeply feel his issues
• How to offer Blessing & Support in a way that the Man can accept and really let in
• How to help a Man access his Inner Child and go deeper into his body & his feelings
• How to use the "hidden power" of his Shadows and Wounds to transform the energy and issue
• How to use & bring this work into your I-Group & the NWTA!

THIS IS A MAGICIAN INITIATION!

The RISK MANAGER sorts through both the Risks and Opportunities to make safe and self-loving decisions through the use of Critical Thinking. There is a difference between suppressing something and choosing not to manifest it, after weighing the options. There can be two different ways to change the life being lived; make actual changes to the life and/or change the viewing mechanism. This training will help you learn and practice Critical Thinking as one way that you improve the quality and experience of your life. You will also learn how to deal with and process the Decision Making Wound. Learning how and practicing Risk Management can TURN RESISTANCE INTO ACTION & FEAR INTO OPPORTUNITY AND LOVE! Learning to MASTER the who, what, where, why and how of TRUST is also a form of Risk Management as it will help you avoid disappointment and betrayal. You will learn how to turn DEPRESSION around and lessen it's impact on your life. You can actually use DEPRESSION as a fueling mechanism to improve your experience of life! You will learn to MASTER the What's At Risk process and use variations of What's At Risk to really empower and fuel your life and your mission! What's at risk for you to change the circumstances of your life? What's at risk for you to change your viewing mechanism? What's at risk for you to live the life you want to live? This training focuses in on the relationship between Idealization, Betrayal and Blessing!

Imagine having the Power and Freedom to Choose your response to Situations, a response that serves Your Highest Good, Your Grandest Version and Vision of Your Self; of who you are becoming and who you already are... Imagine no more... Become that person who has the Power and Freedom to Choose their responses and reactions to given and risen situations. Learn to develop Absolute Subjectivity by letting go and reaching past the veil of illusion to find Your INNER WITNESS. This Inner Witness is a key to release from the turmoil of the mundane world. It is also a key to the freedom of Conscious Living! This training deals with our subpersonalities through the combined use of Voice Dialogue and Shadow Healing. You will learn to facilitate and reframe those mis-directed energies in your SELVES and in each other to achieve an EMPOWERED and BALANCED WAY OF LIFE! You will learn How To Master your Selves, Subpersonalities and Energy Patterns. By opening up to a wider range of choices, You will learn to CREATE THE LIFE YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE!

The Teenager views the world as it might be, should be & cannot be; having to struggle thru puberty, first heartbreak & first sex. It is believed that Teenagers must create a set of personal values & goals by which to live, respresenting a coherent identity. In the age-old & time worn epic battle of Intimacy VS Isolation, young Adults must learn to merge their identity with that of another person. It is during these formidable years that Adults have formed their beliefs around Identity, Independence & Sexuality; by the experiences, decisions & choices made by themselves when they were teenagers. This same teenager will try to determine the meaning of life - whilst juggling the energies of DEFIANCE, REBEL, LOVE, SEX, FRIENDSHIP, LUST & INTIMACY! For many of us, those years were a time of struggle & confusion; a time where life may have been a tangled web of sometimes opposite energies & conflicting desires. We may have taken on Self Limiting Beliefs & Self Defeating Behaviors; and these beliefs & behaviors may still be with us & defining our lives today! For many of us, our focus has been on our Inner Child and we have done much healing in this area. However, some of our STUFF may not relate to our youngest years & the source of some of our REALLY PAINFUL STUFF may actually be found in our teenage years. We may actually, still have our teenagers (INNER TEENAGER) running parts of our lives & running the show. This training HONORS, HEALS & GROWS UP the Teenager inside of us, our INNER TEENAGER.

Sexual expression is the inevitable result of an eternal process of attraction and rhythmic energy flow that fuels all of life. Discover, Revisit, Regain and Reclaim your own SEXUALITY. Celebrate that. Enjoy that. Own that. Own your own joyful sexuality and then you can allow and encourage others to own theirs. Many of us have tons of fear, guilt and shame around our Sexual Identity, Sexual Behavior and Sexual Fantasies. Many of us have been deeply wounded and may have deeply wounded others! On this training you will have the opportunity to release and transform the energy that is trapped within your Sexual Wounds and Sexual Shadows! When you heal this energy and manifest it in New and Meaningful Ways, you will begin to experience yourself as you truly are - Exquisite & Sensual Sexual Beings! This training provides a sensitive, loving and shame-free sacred space for MEN to explore their Sexual Worlds and get some healing around past sexual behaviors and sexual woundings. On this training you will learn how to more fully express and love ALL of your Sexual Identity, Sexual Behaviors and Sexual Fantasies - IN SAFE WAYS!

A Tombstone is a kind of memorial, taken on as a way to stay connected to somebody or something that has been lost. When we lose somebody we love, we may take on some of their behaviors or beliefs as a way to memorialize them. This often shows up as self-defeating behaviors and self-limiting beliefs that run our lives. Or, to compensate for a loss, we may connect or bond with a behavior, belief or substance instead.

Signs of Tombstones

• Have some of your ways of thinking been obsessive?
• Are you stuck in an issue or can't get past a certain way of thinking?
• Have some of your patterns of behavior been compulsive?
• Have you repeatedly made decisions to change or stop certain behaviors and just can't seem to stick to it?
• Are you suffering from / have suffered from:
  Alcoholism              Drug Addiction
  Gambling                Sex Addiction
  Love Addiction       Eating Disorders
  Thrill Seeking          Workaholism
  Shopping & Spending Disorders
• Do you sometimes tell yourself that you just don't love right or good enough?

These may be signs that past traumatic events and the Tombstones that get created along with them, may still be affecting and running your life today!

Learn How To:

• Heal Obsessive Compulsive Disorders
• Break Free from Painful Persistent Patterns
• Deal with Dependence and Co-Dependence Issues
• Liberate Yourself from Enmeshment with Your Ideals, Beliefs, Other People, and Your Self!

When conflict situations occur and re-occur in our primary relationships (romantic & friendship) it may be a sign that the negative aspects of a bonding pattern have taken hold of and are disrupting the relationship. This disruption shows up in a number of ways. One moment, one is in love, the beloved is a compassionate, loving human being and the world is harmonious. The very next moment, everything is out of balance and dissonant. The feelings about the relationship may have moved from the place of optimism and grace to disappointment, despair and distrust! In the case of our friendships, the disruption may show up as a loss or shift in energy. For awhile this friendship may have felt magical, enchanting and full of enormous potential for happiness and fulfillment. Suddenly, you may be finding great and grave faults in this new found friend, the magic is gone, the enchantment is over, you see this person as just another friend; in a long line of great friendships gone sour or stale. Somehow, the energy of both our romantic and friendship driven relationships; seems to dissipate or move off or away... The ways in which we fall in love, express love, receive love, make friendships, show we care... (the ways we connect to others) is often rooted in our childhood bonding patterns; the way we were bonded with and the way we bonded with other; (usually our parents and siblings). This training exposes how some of those bonding patterns are negatively affecting our primary relationships and what to do about it. The ultimate focus of this training is to help the participant heal, create and maintain healthy and loving romantic and friendship driven relationships. This training doubles as both an INDIVIDUAL PERSONAL GROWTH WEEKEND and a COUPLES WEEKEND!

This is not the training you have been waiting for! & you may feel terrified to take it. This training is somewhat of a paradox... You will be trained in some (previously labelled) Dark Ways to do some (seemingly) Dark Things. You will know the what, where, who, why & how of the use of the Dark Ways in Your Lives. This training will teach you how to SPY on others & how to know what they are HIDING! You will learn how to Really Really Get Ahead... Your Master of Denial & Trickster are definitely welcome here! Whether your Predator energy shows up as Preying Upon or Surrendering To, you will be trained in the Fine Arts of Spying, Plotting, Scheming, Conniving, Exploiting & Getting Power Over Others. Only THEN will you be ready to be INITIATED into The Next Step... The SHAMAN, The RITUAL ELDER & The MYSTIC MAGICIAN all have something in common. They have mastered & are in control of all of these energies & make Regular Space For & Use Of them in their LIVES & MISSIONS... Spirits Released & Soul Driven Missions to Transform our World into...!

You have been initiated into your Masculine!
You have worked your Father Wound!
What about Mom?

In order to become a whole man you need to have both your masculine and feminine energies on line and available.

• This powerful training will help you access the "other half of you". 
• It will help you bring your feminine energy on line and into your body, life and relationships!

Each of us carries a "Mother Wound" or "Mother Shadow".

• It determines how well we nurture and take care of ourselves and others.
• It determines how we show up in our relationships with Women and with our Lovers!

 

There are many ways to LEAD! There are many LEADERSHIP STYLES! Some ways and styles PAN OUT better than others... Leadership is an influence process which is directed towards goal achievement. The most effective LEADERS appear to exhibit a degree of versatility and flexibility that enables them to adapt their behavior to the changing and sometimes contradictory demands made on them. In many ways the TAKING OF LEADERSHIP ACTIONS is synonymous with TAKING RESPONSIBILITY for the desired outcome! This training will help you develop healthy and functional levels of appropriate self-disclosure and intimacy in your interpersonal relationships. This SKILL BUILDING LEADERSHIP TRAINING takes the mystery and myth out of HOW TO LEAD and WHAT TO DO! The SOVEREIGN LEADER makes use of mature, responsible and group-centered leadership energies and actions that are focused on the Use of ALL The Resources Of The Group! The participant who takes this training will learn Solution-Focused Group Dynamics and know "what is going on", "where things are headed" and "what they can do to move things forward - in a good way!" On this training you will learn how to SET, HOLD and FLOW with the CONTAINER! You will become THAT LEADER WHO PRACTICES CONSCIOUS LEADERSHIP SKILLS and ACTIONS that will DRAMATICALLY ENHANCE YOUR PERFORMANCE and QUALITY OF LIFE!

How well do you receive blessing? How well do you bless?
This is a measure of how deeply you have activated your Sacred King.

How will you be remembered? What will be your legacy? The passion of the King leaves a legacy of accomplishments congruent with his vision and a network of relationships that serve and shape his kingdom after he is gone.

Are you living a life that is both fully giving and receiving Blessing? Are you creating a legacy that fosters your highest vision of the world and will continue to do so after you have passed over?

Come take the Sacred Kingdom Training and activate the full potential of your King!

Experience and Learn:

SOVEREIGN BLESSING

• Activating the full potential of the King means learning to both give & receive blessing by activating the blessing circuit and Practicing blessing in all four quarters

SHADOW THEATRE

• Learn to accept and enjoy your Pirate King, Tyrant Prince, Desperate Leader, and other Sovereign Shadow energies.

GIFT BLANKET - A KING'S RANSOM

• Share some spirit - magic and wonder

Discover How To:

• Heal DEEP ARCHEYTPAL WOUNDS
• Activate all of the four Archetypes at will
• Experience being Loved and Lovable
• Accept yourself as being Good Enough
• Practice effective Support & Mentoring
• Manifest what you want effectively
• Prepare a Legacy by facing the reality of life - with courage and hope
• Understand and use Absolute Individual Responsibility in all things
• Hold yourself Accountable without fear even in the face of your denial systems
• Use Archetypal Soulutions in your daily life
• Envision and manifest your Future Realm

PROSPERITY & ABUNDANCE

Do you ever wonder why that some people seem to attract and achieve prosperity and abundance with ease? It’s as if the amount of effort they put into things doesn’t quite measure up to the amount that they receive. On the other hand, there are those who work extremely hard and may receive much less or very little for their effort.

Equally as important is the fact that some people seem to manage their finances with ease while others struggle with them. Some people go through life with financial difficulties and spend their lives managing (or trying to) their debts. Others, seem to always have enough money to pay their bills, create and add to their savings and have enough to enjoy some of those finer things of life.

This workshop will help you get control of your finances and attract and achieve PROSPERITY AND ABUNDANCE!

MENTORING

Thousands of years ago, in his epic peom, the Odyssey, the ancient Greek poet Homer coined the word "Mentor" as the name of the wise and trusted guide who accompanies the young man Telemachos, on his journey to adulthood. Socrates is famous as Plato's mentor, Merlin as King Arthur's, Haydn as Beethoven's and Freud as Jung's.

You may have had the good fortune of working under the influence of a effective mentor. If so, you know the life-altering effects a good mentoring relationship can produce. You may also have experienced the not so effective results that may come from ineffective mentoring.

Now you have decided that it is your turn to be a mentor, or perhaps you already are one. As a mentor, your role will be to support and challenge your mentee as the two of you progress through the four stages of a mentoring relationship, Identification, Growth, Separation and Mutuality.